I have just returned from Greece and I really
have nothing to say for it all has all been said before by millions
of travellers much wiser than myself who have visited this intriguing
land since the beginnings of time. I feel very humble with a
great desire to learn more.
It was more than Shirley Valentine, Zorba and
Never on Sunday all rolled up into one. In a scene from one
of her more famous films, Phaedra, Melina Mercuri sings a Greek
song to her stepson, a young Anthony Perkins, while dancing.
He asks her what the words mean and she lovingly looks him in
the eyes with a glance echoing thousands of years of history
and says "like all Greek songs, about love and death".
This is an ancient land and swimming one afternoon
opposite the town of Naoussa on Paros with Nicos I was spell
bound by the mountains and turquoise sea surrounding us. I call
these mountains "sleeping giants". Turning to Nicos
in the water next to me I said that this landscape cries out
for legends and myths. Looking at me in his wise way he said
"the mountains cry legends and myths." This is Greece.
I left hot Rome and my apartment in the trusted
hands of my Estonian friends Christy & George and flew off
to an even hotter and more humid Athens. Nicos, sometimes known
as Nicola or Nico, and his little seven year old son Panayotis,
sometimes known as little one, or peanut or pistachio, were
at the airport to greet me. Panayotis is an old soul in a young
body. Their other son, thirteen year old J.J. (John James who
I constantly had to keep reminding to go play in the traffic)
and Katerina, Nico's wife, who also goes by the name of Cathy
or simply the Goddess, were waiting for us at their one family
villa at Papagos which is one of many suburbs of Athens and
about fifteen minutes by metro from the city center.
We supped and dined and dined and supped and
talked and talked and caught up on the years which had separated
us as we prepared for our early departure the next morning.
We carried on till the "wee hours" before we finally
crawled off to bed. Two hours later we were up and on our way
to the port of Piraeus to catch our ferry to the isle of Paros
in the cyclades. The sea and wind were glorious that morning
and the more and more enticing the further we got from the mainland.
The blue Aegean and countless islands we passed on our voyage
were intoxicating for my tired soul.
About six hours later we arrived at the small
but enchanting island of Paros. Paros is about an hour by boat
from both Naxos and Mykonos. It hadn't dawned on me until we
were there that Paros was/is famous for its gorgeous white marble
and wine. Their marble was highly prized by the ancient Romans
and they covered their most coveted temples and sanctuaries
with a thin venire of it. Ancient Rome at one time was bedecked
in Parian marble. We had rented a small villa in the hills about
ten minutes by car from the principle port town of Parakia.
Our villa was about a seven minute walk from the beach which
could be seen from our terrace.
Life as an "islander" was an incredibly
beautiful experience and we lived it to the hilt! Our days were
full of stressful things like waking late and wandering to the
beach returning around eight or nine in the evening. I don't
think that I have ever been this tan in my entire life...and
I didn't even peel once thanks to sun block! Upon returning
from the beach another major decision had to be confronted...do
we bar-b-q or go into Parakia to taste local delights for dinner?
Major islander decisions.
We discovered two excellent restaurants in Parakia.
One featuring the most incredibly succulent kababs that I have
ever had in my entire life and the other a fantastic fish restaurant.
One evening they grilled for us a fish that I swear was about
a meter long. The most tender of fish I have ever eaten. Both
meritorious of five forks by the Michelin guide people.
The days passed all too quickly. I tried to
savour and enjoy to the best of my capabilities all that surrounded
me. Nicos allowed me to enter even more "into Greek ways
and perceptions". He is an exceptional person and I shall
always feel indebted to him for our conversations and his insights
into the "school of life". We spoke of colors and
forms and of stories and history of this ancient land once wandered
by Homer. We sacrificed to the moon goddess Selana (Selena to
the Romans). All was well and at peace on our island paradise.
Early one evening when the sun was beginning
to think about setting, we, along with some friends of Nicos',
Dimitri, Maria and Lena, took a boat to Antiparos which is a
small island about a ten minute boat ride from Paros. Once there
we rushed across the island by foot to watch the sun set. It
was gorgeous. The sea almost turned to the color of red wine
as Homer once spoke of. Aside from this incredible view I was
also intrigued by Lena who teaches Greek literature at the university
in Athens. She reminded me of the spirit of Melina Mercuri with
the dark and beguiling looks of Irene Papas. Those dark Byzantine
eyes. I was in never, never land. She could have done anything
to me.
I was constantly being bombarded by new thoughts,
sounds, perfumes and emotions. I felt like a sponge. A Greek
one. A tanned Greek one. Our 37 year old Athenian, Constantinos,
who had the concession of umbrellas on our beach paradise for
the summer proved to be, to say the least, an interesting character.
He was the most gentle and handsome of Greek Poseidons (Neptune
to the Romans) I had ever met. He could have easily modelled
for the bronze life size statue of Zeus in the National Museum
in Athens. We had lengthy water front discussions on the meaning
of life and our place in this great cosmos. He spoke to me of
his God and of his search for enlightenment. All this on an
isolated beach on the island of Paros! This is Greece.
The morning of our last day on the island, I,
J.J., and "little one" went down to the beach for
our last swim in these gorgeous, turquoise waters and also to
say our goodbyes to Constantinos. It was touching for he saw
in our eyes the sadness of departure. We shook hands and kissed
in the Greek fashion. He looked at me and told me not to be
sad for he would swim in these waters for me and if I were silent
I would be able to feel his plunge into the water for me. I
was very moved. No one had ever promised to swim for me before.
This was a first. This too is Greece.
The Christopulos family is truly unique and
I am very appreciative of them for having accepted me into their
family. I wanted to take little Panayotis, who was an arduous
and demanding teacher who spent many of his precious moments
trying to teach me Greek, back to Rome with me. He thought about
it but decided that he would not come for he would miss his
family too much. J.J., on the other hand, I have invited to
spend a long weekend with me in Paris for his 16th birthday.
He accepted.
Katerina and her thirty year old Australian
godson, Andrew, who was visiting, joined us from Athens for
our last long weekend on the island. We romped and raved and
carried on and unanimously nominated Katerina "Goddess
of the Wild Things". We sacrificed to all of the local
Gods. They and we were very happy. This too is Greek.
All good things must come to an end and this
was also true for our island adventure. We departed mid-afternoon
on Monday by ferry for Athens. Departure gave me a new emotion.
We were about five minutes off shore with Parakia clearly still
in sight and I began to have these incredible visceral feelings
of separation. I was standing next to Nicos on the boat and
turned my head from him for I felt tears come to my eyes. We
had left Paros.
We returned early that evening to a cooler Athens
where I spent the next couple of days revisiting my favourite
sites......the Acropolis, the National Museum, the Plaka and
Monastiraki areas. On my last evening we went to a restaurant
at the sea side outside of Athens to watch the sun set and dine
on delicacies from the sea. The sea was within touching distance
and the lights of Athens and Piraeus flickered in the distance.
I felt renewed and at peace and extremely lucky and happy to
have been loved by the Christopolus family.
I am now back in Rome and feel happy to be here
but much richer for having had this experience. I have done
a number of watercolour sketches and taken many photos which
will, without doubt, be of inspiration to me for future works.
I feel full of energy, spiritually renewed and ready to confront
the world again!